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Why Choosing to Be Unnoticed Can Boost Your Well-Being
I find solace in going unnoticed sometimes. It’s not always a bad thing, even though we’re often taught that being seen is the goal. There are moments when blending into the background feels…
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Unraveling the Mind of an Overthinker in Relationships
For me, when I get into an intimate relationship, I automatically know how the ending will be before it’s even begun. I’m an overthinker through and through. I overthink every minute detail about…
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Listening to Your Nervous System for Better Care
Self-care isn’t a one-size-fits-all checklist. It looks different from person to person. Some people enjoy physical activities such as yoga or hiking for their self-care needs. Other people might opt for a quieter…
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Navigating Life with AUDHD: Finding Balance Amidst the Waves
Living with AUDHD involves navigating conflicting impulses between intense passion and overstimulation. The author experiences frustration with fleeting interests, self-judgment, and a lack of energy. Receiving a diagnosis provided clarity, transforming self-doubt into…
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Squidy: The Stuffed Animal That Held My World Together
There’s an item from my childhood that I was incredibly attached to. His name was Squidy. He was a stuffed animal, though even now I couldn’t confidently tell you what kind. Maybe a dog. Maybe a…
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Experiencing Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria in Real Time
I experienced a heavy wave of rejection last night. I noticed that my close friends had gathered together for what I can only assume was a New Year’s celebration. The thing is—I didn’t…
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Relationships That Nurture: How to Find Your Circle
The relationships that have shaped me in the best ways are the ones that truly see me and understand me. Not the version of me that masks, but the honest version that just…
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I Thought I Was Too Sensitive—Turns Out, I Was Just Misunderstood
The author shares their journey of recognizing their neurodivergence after feeling overly sensitive and misunderstood throughout life. They describe how this sensitivity allows for deeper experiences of the world, appreciating sensory joys that…
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Quiet Strength: Navigating Life with Autism and Sensitivity
The author reflects on their lifelong struggle with shyness and communication difficulties, exacerbated by societal misconceptions about these traits. They explore their journey toward self-acceptance, revealing the challenge of recognizing and embracing their…
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Managing Complaints: A Neurodivergent Perspective
The author reflects on their tendency to complain, attributing it to their experiences with ADHD and autism. They share personal challenges, such as sensitivity to temperature and light, decision fatigue, and feeling disrespected.…
