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Listening to Your Nervous System for Better Care
Self-care isn’t a one-size-fits-all checklist. It looks different from person to person. Some people enjoy physical activities such as yoga or hiking for their self-care needs. Other people might opt for a quieter…
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Navigating Life with AUDHD: Finding Balance Amidst the Waves
Living with AUDHD involves navigating conflicting impulses between intense passion and overstimulation. The author experiences frustration with fleeting interests, self-judgment, and a lack of energy. Receiving a diagnosis provided clarity, transforming self-doubt into…
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Memorable Road Trips: More Than Just Destinations
When I think back on my most memorable road trip, my mind doesn’t go straight to distance or destination. It goes to feeling. To the moments that have lingered in my memory long…
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Why My Favorite Panini Makes Me Feel at Home
The author shares a deep appreciation for their favorite snack, the chicken pesto panini from Il Tramezzino, an Italian café. This personal favorite evokes comforting memories of lunch dates with their mom, highlighting…
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Coping with Cooking Burnout: The Comfort of Simple Meals
There are days when cooking feels soothing, almost meditative. And then there are days when it feels extremely overwhelming. When that happens, it’s usually because I’m turn burnout and depleted of any energy. My relationship…
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Squidy: The Stuffed Animal That Held My World Together
There’s an item from my childhood that I was incredibly attached to. His name was Squidy. He was a stuffed animal, though even now I couldn’t confidently tell you what kind. Maybe a dog. Maybe a…
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Why Do I Overreact? Understanding Emotional Responses
I always feel like I overreact. Especially because my reactions don’t always stay inside. Sometimes they show up in public—in parking lots, grocery store lines, or traffic when I’m already tired and just…
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The Push and Pull of Wanting to Be Seen
I’ve never felt fully comfortable taking up space. Not in my family, my relationships, or my friendships. Being shy and quiet has truly shaped how I live in the world. From an early age, I remember…
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What I Need Most After an Emotional Spiral
After an emotional spiral, there’s often this silence that follows. The crying has stopped. The panic has eased just enough to catch my breath again. But what’s left behind feels extremely heavy. That’s…
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How to Silence Your Inner Critic and Embrace Self-Acceptance
One thing that I’m slowly learning is just how much damage my inner critic has done to me over the years. That voice inside is relentless. It tells me that I’m worthless, useless, and…