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Signs Your Body Is Overstimulated and How to Cope
Sometimes I don’t notice that I’m overstimulated right away. The signs and signals start out small. A flicker of tension behind my eyes. My shoulders tightening without my realizing. A low buzz of…
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Why “Just Speak Up” Isn’t Helpful Advice
For most of my life, I’ve been told to just speak up. Teachers said it because my voice was too soft. Friends say it because all they hear are “mumbles,” even though I’m speaking…
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The Bittersweet Truth About Birthdays
Tomorrow is my birthday. Birthdays, for me, have always felt like the one day out of the year where I can feel truly seen—where friends, family, and even acquaintances from different walks of…
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The Love of Cooking Italian Food
If you ask me what my favorite thing to cook is, the answer will always be Italian food. There’s nothing quite like a sauce slowly simmering on the stove, the smell of garlic…
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Gentle Self-Care for People Who Are Tired of Fixing Themselves
I remember sitting through a therapy session one day, pouring my heart out about how my depression had taken over nearly every inch of my mind and body. I’d felt completely at a…
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Why Choosing to Be Unnoticed Can Boost Your Well-Being
I find solace in going unnoticed sometimes. It’s not always a bad thing, even though we’re often taught that being seen is the goal. There are moments when blending into the background feels…
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Embrace Your Unique Journey: Stop the Comparison
For most of my life, I’ve lived by comparison. It’s not because I want to — it’s because my brain can’t help but go there. I’ve always felt inadequate and not up to…
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The Value of Challenging Books in Education
When I was growing up, I read some of the greatest books ever written. You know the ones, the books that were required reading, but somehow that requirement turned into love, admiration, appreciation,…
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This Is About Humanity
I’ve reached the end of my rope. I can no longer be silent about the current state of the United States, because what we’re watching unfold is the slow destruction of humanity itself.…
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Unraveling the Mind of an Overthinker in Relationships
For me, when I get into an intimate relationship, I automatically know how the ending will be before it’s even begun. I’m an overthinker through and through. I overthink every minute detail about…
