Why Empathy is My Greatest Strength

The trait I value most about myself is empathy. I’ve always been able to connect with people on a deeper level. Others know me to be reliable, loyal, and compassionate—which I believe I am. I think that others see something in me that is comforting and trustworthy. I let others be authentically themselves around me, and I don’t judge anyone for it. I feed off of other’s emotions and my happiness is often dependent on their mood and energy.

I’m used to being the friend that everyone can count on. I offer great advice (even though I never personally take it), I listen intently, and I’m a safe space for venting. Sometimes, I jokingly feel like I’m everyone’s therapist. But I wouldn’t have it any other way. It’s how I connect and understand others on a much deeper level.

My empathetic nature stretches into everything basically. I’m very in-tune with the world and I experience the pain and suffering within it. Whenever I read up on current events, and tragedies unfold, I can feel it. That’s why I generally try to avoid the news all together because I don’t want to become an emotional wreck.

I used to see my empathy as a weakness, but I actually realize that it’s a gift. Being so sensitive to things is what makes it hard to manage. I can cry in an instant if I feel like I’m being criticized or rejected. It feels like my senses become amplified. But I realize that that empathy is a strong trait to have. It really ties everything together and is what makes me feel the most human.