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Cooking with My Feelings: How My Mood Shapes My Meals
I’ve learned that I don’t just feed my body—I feed my emotions. Some days, food is a remedy. Other days, it’s a reflection. And more often than not, it speaks the language of my feelings when…
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Where Have I Been Shrinking Myself?
The author reflects on their tendency to shrink themselves throughout life to feel safe and loved, often by becoming overly agreeable and accommodating. They share the exhaustion and loneliness that come from this…
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Boundaries Are Self-Care: Learning to Say No Without Guilt
For the longest time, I thought saying “yes” was kindness. That being available, helpful, and agreeable made me a good person. I never wanted to be a disappointment to people. It’s naturally in my nature…
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The Quiet Work No One Sees
The author reflects on their journey of personal healing and the challenges of caregiving for a parent with a disability. They struggle with anxiety and self-doubt, often feeling overwhelmed by their responsibilities. Despite…
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Fear Still Lives Here—But So Do I
I used to believe that to overcome fear meant to banish it entirely. To shut the door on it, toss the key, and walk away victorious, fearless, and confident. But I’ve learned something different. …
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Gentle Mondays: Slowing Down in a Fast-Paced World
I used to believe that Mondays had to be bold. I thought I had to show up smiling, motivated, and ready to take on the world. But now I know better. Some Mondays, just getting…
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Navigating the Depths of Depression
When Depression Hits, It Hits Hard When you’re suffering from depression, it doesn’t just gently tap you on the shoulder or ask for your attention. It just shows up, and crashes into you like…
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Discovering Your Strengths
For the longest time, I couldn’t figure out what I was good at. I spent years feeling depressed, anxious, worthless, and weighed down by guilt. I had little to no energy to get anything done. My…
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The Myth of “Having It All”
In my opinion, “having it all” is a myth. Society tells us that achieving the so-called American dream will lead to lasting happiness and fulfillment. But the fact is, that none of those things—success, financial security, marriage,…
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Slow Saturdays: The Art of Doing Less (and Feeling More)
There is something sacred about Saturdays. It’s typically a day when we get out of the house and get things done. Usually it’s stacked high with errands, checking off to do lists, and…
