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When You Know What Would Help but Can’t Get Started
Learning more about my ADHD and autism has helped me understand myself, but knowing what I need doesn't mean I can always do it. I'm still learning how to deal with the frustrating…
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The Pressure to Turn Every Struggle Into a Learning Experience
We’re often expected to find a lesson in everything that hurts us. But not every difficult experience needs a positive takeaway. It’s okay to feel disappointed, take your time processing what happened, and…
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When You Outgrow a Version of Your Life
Lately, I’ve been feeling a force pulling me in the direction of change. It’s not necessarily what I want, but I’m realizing that some things no longer fit the person I’ve become.
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There Are Some Things You Can’t Rush
I’ve always struggled with feeling like I’m behind. I see other people moving forward in areas where I wish I could be, and sometimes I can’t help but wonder why things seem to…
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One Way I’ve Grown This Year: Speaking Up for Myself
In this episode, I share my journey of growing up shy, finding confidence through understanding my neurodivergence, and speaking up for myself—even when it came with a painful loss. This is a conversation…
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The Bittersweet Truth About Birthdays
Tomorrow is my birthday. Birthdays, for me, have always felt like the one day out of the year where I can feel truly seen—where friends, family, and even acquaintances from different walks of…
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Reframing Flaws as Unique Strengths
The author reflects on past struggles with quietness, sensitivity, and the need for alone time, initially perceiving these traits as flaws. Over time, they embraced these characteristics as strengths that shape their unique…
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Finding Peace: Declutter Your Space and Mind
I know I need to declutter both my environment and my mind. My mind most of all—but for me, it always starts with what I can see. Visual clutter overwhelms me in a…
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What I Need Most After an Emotional Spiral
After an emotional spiral, there’s often this silence that follows. The crying has stopped. The panic has eased just enough to catch my breath again. But what’s left behind feels extremely heavy. That’s…
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How to Silence Your Inner Critic and Embrace Self-Acceptance
One thing that I’m slowly learning is just how much damage my inner critic has done to me over the years. That voice inside is relentless. It tells me that I’m worthless, useless, and…
