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Building a Life That Needs Less Escaping From
I've always been a daydreamer, convinced that happiness was waiting somewhere beyond my current circumstances. But what if I wasn't searching for an escape at all? What if I was searching for a…
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The Quiet Cost of Holding it all Together
Most of the time, I keep it all together. I don’t like drama or confrontation of any sort, so I keep the peace, keep it calm, maintain a vibey flow. I put on…
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The Impact of Constant Apologies on Self-Worth
I’m constantly apologizing for taking up space. I can’t even begin to tell you just how many times a day I say the words, “I’m sorry.” It’s like a reflex I can’t switch…
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Paying Attention to Life’s Details
There are many details of my life that I would like to pay more attention to. I feel like we spend so much of our time caught up in what needs to be done…
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How Air Conditioning Supports Summer Self-Care
One luxury I couldn’t live without would be air-conditioning. It’s what’s saving my life right ow from the blistering heat. It might sound silly to some, but honestly, it’s something I’ve become deeply reliant on. …
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Boundaries Are Self-Care: Learning to Say No Without Guilt
For the longest time, I thought saying “yes” was kindness. That being available, helpful, and agreeable made me a good person. I never wanted to be a disappointment to people. It’s naturally in my nature…
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Nourishment in the Hard Moments
There are times when I don’t have the energy to think, let alone cook. When depression hits, it hits hard. The smallest tasks feel like mountains to climb. The days blur together. I feel sluggish, unmotivated, and…
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Navigating the Depths of Depression
When Depression Hits, It Hits Hard When you’re suffering from depression, it doesn’t just gently tap you on the shoulder or ask for your attention. It just shows up, and crashes into you like…
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Slow Saturdays: The Art of Doing Less (and Feeling More)
There is something sacred about Saturdays. It’s typically a day when we get out of the house and get things done. Usually it’s stacked high with errands, checking off to do lists, and…
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Finding Independence While Caring for Loved Ones
Personally, I don’t like the word sacrifice. It sounds like I’m going to do something ritualistically damaging. I frame it through a different lens. It’s not that I haven’t made sacrifices—it’s that I’ve learned…